Do and don'ts
Don't(s) - A big turn off (potentially damages a relationship if carried on repeatedly)
1. Being too clingy (UHU glue) and needy (asking people to do everything for you)
2. Saying 'I love you' too frequently
3. Asking doubtful questions (do you still love me/you love me right/how much do you love me)
4. Jealousy (raising suspicions over female friends or getting jealous of sisters)
5. Questioning his loyalty. Questioning his preference.
6. Purposely fishing for compliments (complaining about how I look)
7. Details when it is unnecessary (beating around the bush, trailing off, ranting)
Do(s) - Expresses goodwill (potentially strengthens a relationship)
1. Giving him enough space ('me time')
2. Love, understanding and respect.(all ears, listen wholeheartedly, put myself in his shoes to understand)
3. Reciprocate favours (or be the first to surprise him once in a while).
4. Gratitude (say 'thank you' often- not all the time but when he deserves it)
5. Body language (smiles and hugs can effectively express a heartfelt 'thank you' without actually saying it)
